Ok, so I went for a run after work yesterday. Perfect weather, a goal in mind, music & headphones, and decided to just take my single spare key so I would not encumbered in any way....FOCUSED! I feel good, nice pace, zoned out....then I think...where's my key?? I stopped and patted myself down. YIKES!! No key! What??? So I back trace my route. After the 4th time retracing my steps and calling my leasing office (who informed me that they don't provide any sort of lock out service) I think, "Great!!" I called a friend who helped me look for my key...no key....called an overpriced locksmith...no thanks. Decided to wait it out. Hung out with a friend until my apartment's leasing office opened and voila! I survived!
Choice #1 - I made the choice to run with a single spare key.
Consequence #1 - I lost my key and was locked out of my place.
Choice #2 - I opted to wait it out and save the $60 I would have spent on a locksmith.
Consequence # 2 - Had no money, no I.D. and had to stay with a friend.
Now, here's the defining truth. I CHOSE above all to be "OK". Sure I made a silly mistake and was inconvenienced (and asked a friend to let me crash) but it was a perfect day all the same. The old me (before I understood that I control my feelings and responses...not situations) would have been a loose cannon of frustration, belittling myself for being so irresponsible.
I tweeted yesterday "You are never without the power to choose." Regardless of the situation, I had power and I FIRST used it to choose to be OK. All the other choices I made were to think, research and come to a conclusion. Imagine if I had wasted my evening being upset. That's no fun.
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